FPE 2021 Schedule
Presenter: Big John
So you have this bright idea that poly might be for you and yours? This talk goes into the process of starting and/or maintaining poly relationships of many different types and styles. Learning to ask the correct questions and figure out the critical details before they become issues and/or demons to slay. Also some warnings for some common pitfalls and traps that people fall into on this crazy road. Bring all your questions and we can also discuss as a group from different viewpoints and hopefully get many creative solutions/ideas.
Presenters:MsRobinSyn & kittie General rules, navigation, Q&A, etc to help you make the most of your experience
Presenter: Buck
Buck has been working with leather for over 40 years. And is a certified saddle and harness craftsman. This class will cover types of leather and how to clean and condition your leather. From a coat to fetish toys and more. He will also point out what to look for when buying leather to ensure you get a quality product for your money. He will go over any item you have and give advice on how to care for it also.
Presenter: Sir Axe & slave bella
We’ll work to define consent and discuss how we begin to understand what our limits are. How do we negotiate what we need and want for play. We’ll also discuss safewords, safe calls, vetting and all of the unpleasantries of consent violation.
Presenters:TheDaddyMichael & Arthur/MycroftM General rules, navigation, Q&A, etc to help you make the most of your experience
Presenter: Marilyn Z / Ms.SensualSadist
Rituals and their effectiveness directly interact with unconscious realms. Are you participating in rituals without the conscious awareness of it? Recognizing our rituals in life, past, present, and future, helps us prevail. Blood rituals have been used for centuries. It is the liquid essence of life. What place do they, or can they, hold in a Power Exchange relationship? The slow tingle and wet feeling of blood dripping down the skin is intoxicating when combined with the understanding it is being used to bind you closer. Using blood (from both sides of the slash) as a manifestation of our devotion can strengthen and deepen our relationships. This class is geared towards all, not just Blood enthusiasts.
Big/lil Meet & Greet!
Governess Time
Overview: Long ago, in the fantasy world of Kumandra, humans and dragons lived together in harmony. However, when sinister monsters known as the Druun threatened the land, the dragons sacrificed themselves to save humanity. Now, 500 years later, those same monsters have returned, and it's up to a lone warrior to track down the last dragon and stop the Druun for good.
Presenter: Sir Axe & slave bella
We take a look at various titles and labels and break down what they mean. What their roles and responsibilities are or are not. Along with the importance of choosing the proper ones for yourself.
Presenter: Madam Hexe
Straight razors are, for most people, equally sexy and terrifying. Both the mastercraft and lethal aspects of this tool add to its appeal and help it nd a place in the hallowed halls of elusive edgeplay. A straight razor’s foremost function is that of a personal grooming tool. This class will focus on using a straight razor for both erotic play scenes based on intimacy, fear, and trust, as well as shaving as a form of Service. The care and maintenance of straight razors will also be included in the discussion—your play and Service is only as good as your tools.
Presenter: Siren_JBXsg
What happens when one of the s-types in your dynamic gets sick or becomes chronically ill? How do you deal with respectfully taking over for them in addition to what you do? How do you make sure the one who’s ill is okay with you doing their work? How do keep their spirit intact when serving is their cornerstone? In this class we’ll discuss shifts in responsibility, coping mechanisms, comfort mechanisms, and ways to ensure everyone is getting their needs met.
Presenter: TheDaddyMichael
Those in a power exchange strive to create value and purpose. Without purpose, we don’t have power exchange. In this class, we discuss the often touchy subject of punishment. Are your punishments effective? Are your punishments hitting on triggers, or worse, creating new triggers? What value do your punishments have? We dive into the world of making punishments have meaning, create learning, and become purposeful. We also talk about avoiding damage with punishments. Often this is a landmine just waiting for a victim. You will walk away from this class with some new ideas about punishment, and creating purposeful power exchange with punishment.
Presenter: Marilyn Z / Ms.SensualSadist
Communication is key in any relationship. It is magnified in a power exchange dynamic. This class will encourage attendees to identify how they experience and express love. They will learn their love language as outlined by Dr. Gary Coleman. We will explore how we can use this relevant information to learn more about ourselves, our needs and how it can enhance our dynamics. This class is geared for singles, couples, and multiples.
Presenter: Buck
We go over the dynamics between a pony and his or her handler / trainer / Owner. How training can take two individuals and become one unit. How the pony needs to lean commands and not anticipate what the trainer wants. And how the trainer / rider learns from the pony’s response to commands. We also will cover different types of ponies, basic rein commands, and different commands to control a pony other than reins or verbal, and how these vary between each trainer and pony depending on their connection with each other. And we will go over tack, what is needed and what is extreme / show off. And why you should design your tack to fit your needs and style for your pony. There is no one way to love this unique style of play.
Free Coloring Time!
Presenter: Dr. Sara Fackelman
One of the goals of talking about BDSM, both between ourselves and with others, is to demystify D&s and M/s relationships. Sometimes it isn’t just people outside of BDSM who don’t understand it, but also many of us on the inside don’t always appreciate the scope and possibilities of BDSM. In this workshop, we will discuss the questions, “Should BDSM have a less hidden and better understood place in society? Are there parallels between how BDSM is viewed by the wider community now and how the LGBT community was viewed many years ago?” These and other questions will be discussed as food for thought.
Presenter: Sir Top and slave bonnie
What changes besides our age? What do we need to pay attention to? How important is communication and what if you’re a newbie at an older age? As our body ages, our play altars so a good question might be: Are you too old? We say NO, just know your limits and communicate your physical and emotional needs/desires.
Presenter: Mistress Alora & Kee
As a woman of more than 2 decades living Ethical non-monogamy as a lifestyle. Let's talk about the hurdles and successes of what that looks like. Get some personal advice on how to incorporate ENM in its many forms. Learn what KTP is and why I chose it for myself. Let's discuss the difference between rules and boundaries, unicorn hunting, OPP, and other terms. Let's talk about red flags, but let's hear about green ones, too.
Making Friendship Bracelets!
Presenter: Mama Jaye
Think of it this way: If you haven’t figured out what aspects of sex are most important to you, how can you communicate what you want to a partner? The sex personality type model creates a framework for opening that conversation,” And by knowing your partner’s sex personality type as well, you can do a better job of making sure their needs are being met.
Presenter: Dr. Sara Fackelman
In the past, many have argued that BDSM and those who engage as dominant or submissive have a psychopathology indicative of poor mental health. In this workshop, Dr. Sara Fackelman, a licensed psychotherapist and certified, clinical sex therapist, will discuss the psychological characteristics of BDSM practitioners: the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Presenter: TheDaddyMichael
How to have fun with a feisty bottom! Picture this; the scene starts like it always does. The top puts the bottom on the furniture. The bottom stays ever so still. Lash after lash, one skill after another used in such a meticulous fashion. Then, without warning, the bottom looks over their shoulder and says, when should I say ouch? Or, maybe with a smug look on their face, ask if that’s all you got? Now the fun begins. The power exchange dance. The interaction between the two, the energy that begins to bounce off each other. In this class, we will talk about the upsides of being feisty. Are you the top? We will talk about how to have fun without crossing the line. As a bottom, we will talk about the importance of playful feedback that entices the top. Ready to change your scene up?
Mask Decorating!
Presenter: Angelathismercy
We all have our own dynamics and sometimes those dynamics tend to merge. We will discuss the highs and lows of “shapeshifting”, as it were. You started with a Gorean slave girl, now you have a she-wolf who gives way to your little. It’s all in the timing and, often, in the wrist!
Presenter: Lady Steele
People participate in Bondage, Discipline, and Sadism/Masochism, all the time not knowing the potential legal pitfalls. It is time to get down to brass tacks. What legal dangers are inherent to what it is we do? The simple truth is, legal issues abound when it comes to participating in BDSM and always have. It can affect several areas in our lives, including family, criminal, civil, estate planning, healthcare, and even businesses law. How can you prepare yourself for the worst case scenario? Come find out when Lady Steele presents BDSM and the Law, which will also include the newest updates from the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom.
Recovery in the Lifestyle
Cyberlox Making!
Dance Party!
Free Time!
Are you or your partner moving toward or experiencing gender confirmation with medical support? Join Master Talon and justkathy for an honest and open discussion of the impact this may have on your current relationship and tips to navigate the challenges of change and evolution.
Presenter: Lady Steele
Calling all “s” types, or folx on the “right side of the slash”. Have you ever been accused of being “bratty,” “difficult,” “contrary,” or just downright disobedient when that really isn’t your intention at all? If so, then this is the class for you! Join Lady Steele as she shows you how to be sassy with a zing all while honoring the duties and responsibilities of your power exchange relationship(s). She will discuss Alpha personality types on the “right side of the slash” and then show those that are “challenging” how to be so with obedience while not giving up what makes them, them.
Presenter: Siren_JBXsg
So you’re in an M/s or D/s relationship and part of the way through, the s-type finds they’re a little or a pet or you’ve both found primal to be alluring. How do you maintain your M/s or D/s while exploring other modalities and dynamics? In this class, we’ll discuss combining multiple dynamics into one fairly smooth running dynamic. We’ll discuss the pitfalls that come with this as well as the benefits. We’ll talk about accommodating and fostering the modalities without losing the protocol or intent of the existing dynamic.
Swingers and Kinksters can find themselves confused and misinformed about each others lifestyles, but we all have more in common than we think! Why do these two amazing, sex-positive communities often times see each other as different and dissimilar? Join the couples from Swinky Life as we discuss the myths and misconceptions that surround swinging and kink as well as the commonalities between these two communities. We share our experiences and answer questions from participants about the swinging lifestyle and our respective journeys into non-monogamy and kink.
Presenter: Mama Jaye
Bright blessings… I am a teacher, healer, therapist…and a bit of a witch. I have presented at a number events over the last 22 years. I walk in spirit… I am interested in teaching a sensual dance and massage class. Where people can learn to love themselves while they assist their lover, partner, spouse, Master, slave in healing and loving also.
Presenter: Mistress Alora & Kee
Let's delve into the many ways that Power exchange makes us wet and what that looks like to use it in our day to day to get our needs met. Bring your questions and let's discuss.
Presenter: Angelathismercy
Some of us have those “moments”, the ones where we become whiny, cranky, want our own way, or feel extremely rebellious or argumentative. These are Middle moments. How do those who have them manage them in public and in private? How do our Dominants manage them? Suggestions, ideas, and possibly funny stories as to how this dynamic has woven its way into the alternative lifestyle realm and -why we need it.
Presenter: Madam Hexe
A Female-Led Relationship (FLR) is the elusive and seductive power exchange that flips heteronormative gender roles upside down. As a FemmeDomme, Madam Hexe’s dynamics are FLR by default–but what happens when that experience is full-time over years? This class focuses on the evolving expectations of an on-going power exchange including how to take the reins as a FemmeDomme and how to come to terms with your desire to submit as a submissive when the world expects you to wear the pants. Your fantasy is our reality.
Presenter: MycroftM & Daemonchild
How to anticipate your partner’s needs, read their body language, learn how to monitor their heart rate and respiration to see exactly how your bottom is reacting to you and what you’re doing. Add the innovative things I teach in my class, and they will be swearing you read minds….
Presenter: Big John
Ok so you have all the emotional and jealousy issues figured out (or at least bolted down enough not to spray the walls any more). Now you want to get to the nut and bolts of living together as a poly family. This class will cover more of the mechanics of a poly house. Things like money, Shared property, legal status (including picking a lawyer if needed). And even cover the icky subjects of medical, estate, and even death planning. Several options will be covered for all sorts of different dynamics, ranging from tightly bonded long term families to more fluid mobs.
Making Friendship Bracelets!
Recovery in the Lifestyle
Presenter: Sir Top and slave bonnie
Amazing Sensation Play with Sir Top and victims! (Volunteers) Learn how different knives challenge those we play as we share how you can take your play to another level. This demo provides an opportunity to learn correct and safe knife play, which can be highly erotic, and the physical and psychological reactions can be intense. Bring your blades and let’s have fun.
Presenter: MycroftM & Daemonchild
Japanese rope bondage is an artistic power exchange that is about the journey rather than the destination. In this class we will discuss the basics of how to choose rope, types of rope, basic knots and the different components of basic Japanese bondage.
Free Play & Games!
Our cigar social benefits Paw Prints Pet Rescue, a local non-profit charity that focuses on rescuing dogs with medical needs and those in need of hospice care.
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Starting and/or building a Poly Family. (Poly101)Big John | Room 13:00 pm - 4:00 pm
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FPE OrientationMsRobinSyn & kittie | Room 23:00 pm - 4:00 pm
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Leather – Information you Should KnowBuck | Room 33:00 pm - 4:00 pm
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Back to Basics (Consent, Limits and Negotiations)Sir Axe & slave bella | Room 14:30 pm - 5:30 pm
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Dungeon OrientationThe Daddy Michael & Arthur/MycroftM | Room 24:30 pm - 5:30 pm
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Blood RitualsMarilyn Z / Ms.SensualSadist | Room 34:30 pm - 5:30 pm
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Dinner Break/Poolside Karaoke5:30 pm - 7:00 pm
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Big/lil Meet & GreetLittles Room7:30 pm - 8:00 pm
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Iron DomRoom 28:00 pm - 9:00 pm
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Governess TimeRoom 29:00 pm - 10:00 pm
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Movie - Raya & The Last DragonRoom 210:00 pm - 12:00 am
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Masters, Dominants, Mentors and ProtectorsSir Axe & slave bella | Room 19:00 am - 10:00 am
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Straight Razors: Erotic Shaving and Shaving as a ServiceMadam Hexe | Room 29:00 am - 10:00 am
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Dealing with a Chronic Illness in a Hierarchical Poly RelationshipSiren_JBXsg | Room 39:00 am - 10:00 am
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Punishment With a PurposeTheDaddyMichael & kittie | Room 110:30 am - 11:30 am
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The Languages of Love; BDSM styleMarilyn Z / Ms.SensualSadist | Room 210:30 am - 11:30 am
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Power Exchange and the Dynamics Between a Pony and their Handler/Trainer/OwnerBuck | Room 310:30 am - 11:30 am
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Free Coloring TimeLittles Room10:30 am - 11:30 am
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M/s, D/s and Our Wider SocietyDr. Sara Fackelman | Room 112:00 pm - 1:00 pm
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Aging in the Lifestyle: Is BDSM sustainable as we age?Sir Top and slave bonnie | Room 212:00 pm - 1:00 pm
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Polyamory and Ethical Non-MonogamyMistress Alora & Kee | Room 312:00 pm - 1:00 pm
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Friendship BraceletsLittles Room12:00 pm - 1:00 pm
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Lunch Break1:00 pm - 2:30 pm
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What’s Your Sex Personality Type?Mama Jaye | Room 12:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Psychological Characteristics of BDSM PractitionersDr. Sara Fackelman | Room 22:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Is that all you got?TheDaddyMichael & kittie | Room 32:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Mask DecoratingLittles Room2:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Being Mixed: Fluid Dynamics in a Monogamous RelationshipAngelathismercy | Room 14:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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BDSM and the Law – New & Improved!Lady Steele | Room 24:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Recovery in the LifestyleRecovery in the Lifestyle | Room 34:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Cyberlox MakingLittles Room4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Dinner Break5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
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Contest Meet & GreetRoom 27:30 pm - 8:30 pm
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Dungeon ('till 3am)Room 29:00 pm - 12:00 am
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HospitailtyRoom 39:00 pm - 12:00 am
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Dance PartyLittles Room9:00 pm - 10:00 pm
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Free TimeLittles Room10:00 pm - 12:00 am
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Trans-itioning RelationshipsMaster Talon and justkathy | Room 19:00 am - 10:00 am
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Sassy Submission: How to sass with classLady Steele | Room 29:00 am - 10:00 am
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Mixing TPE and Other DynamicsSiren_JBXsg | Room 39:00 am - 10:00 am
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FPE ContestRoom 110:30 am - 1:00 pm
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Bridging the gap between swinging and kinkSwinky LIfe | Room 210:30 am - 11:30 am
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Sensual self love via movement and massageMama Jaye | Room 310:30 am - 11:30 am
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Power Exchange: What It Is and Why We Do ItMistress Alora & Kee | Room 212:00 pm - 1:00 pm
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Middle ManagementAngelathismercy | Room 312:00 pm - 1:00 pm
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Lunch Break1:00 pm - 2:30 pm
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Female-Led Relationships: Living the FantasyMadam Hexe | Room 12:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Jedi Mind TricksMycroftM & Daemonchild | Room 22:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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The business, mechanics and legal issues of living in a poly house.Big John | Room 32:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Friendship BraceletsLittles Room2:30 pm - 3:30 pm
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Recovery in the LifestyleRecovery in the Lifestyle | Room 14:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Sensual Knife PlaySir Top and slave bonnie | Room 24:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Beginning Shibari *POWER EXCHANGE FOCUS*MycroftM & Daemonchild | Room 34:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Free Play & GamesLittles Room4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Dinner Break5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
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Closing Ceremonies & KeynoteRoom 27:30 pm - 8:30 pm
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Dungeon ('till 3am)Room 29:00 pm - 12:00 am
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HospitailtyRoom 39:00 pm - 12:00 am
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Cigar SocialPoolside9:30 pm - 10:30 pm